The Quiet Power of Admiring: Beyond Romance, Finding Connection in Shared Devotion
We often talk about love onscreen – passionate romance, familial devotion – but there's a quieter, equally powerful emotion at play in some of cinema’s most resonant moments: admiration. It’s that feeling you get when witnessing someone’s dedication, their unwavering commitment to something bigger than themselves, or simply recognizing a spark of brilliance in another person. And it turns out, this “admiration” isn't always about romantic longing; it can be the foundation for community, unexpected connection, and even personal growth.
Think about Saiyaara. It’s not just a love story, is it? The core of their bond stems from a shared reverence for music, a mutual understanding of its power to transcend boundaries. Their admiration for the art form fuels their relationship more than any grand declaration of affection. It's that appreciation – that recognition of something beautiful and profound - that initially draws them together. It’s a lovely example of how deeply admiring someone’s passion can be just as vital, if not more so, than romantic attraction.
And it appears in unexpected places too! Consider Ó Paí, Ó 2. While the film thrives on the lively energy of its community and humorously portrays the quirks of its residents, there’s a current of admiration flowing beneath the surface. It's evident in how people respect tradition, celebrate their heritage, and find joy in one another's company—even amidst chaos.
I’ve always been fascinated by films that portray admiration across generations. A Sogra Perfeita, for instance, is a charming example of a mother's deep desire to see her son happy, and how she actively works towards it despite their differences. It's not necessarily romantic affection, but an admiration for his potential, a hope for his future that drives her actions.
Even something seemingly lighthearted like Peterson Moving Co. plays with the idea of admiration. The teens initially admire (and are perhaps intimidated by) their employer’s apparent success and confidence – even if it's built on a foundation of deceit! That initial respect evolves into a complex relationship built on trust and shared adventure.
Ultimately, films that showcase this less-discussed emotion often offer something truly special: a reminder that human connection can be found in the most unexpected places, fueled by the simple act of admiring someone’s dedication, skill, or spirit.
What do you think? Have you seen a film recently where admiration played a key role? I'd love to hear about it!
